Your Dance and moves are influenced by the endeavors you meet in Life.
To enter in the Dharmi practice you first describe and observe which situation/context is affecting you at this time. Also, you clarify your Intention!
Your dance will differ if it is happening in a peaceful surrounding, with a wonderful weather, and safe environment; than if it is happening in a very cold weather, with many people struggling around you.
Yes, you need a context in order to dance in harmony with what is around you. Life is giving you many chances to process a behavioral pattern, it is giving you opportunities to surrender.
“You can choose to change the mirror if you don’t like the reflection. However the next mirror will reflect again what you didn’t like to see.”
In the Dharmi practice you accept the “mirror” or “situation” to be there. What you want to move is yourself, you are the one dancing. You cannot do the dance for the other. Neither you can expect the other to change.
If you ignore the situation, or context, your dance can be very lonely, or, you can loose the connection with your surrounding, and environment.
Sometimes you would rather cut from the other person, in order to not feel the “mask” that is triggered by the situation. Imagine you are dancing tango, the other person walk on your feet, and you decide to directly change partner. Maybe the other one will step on your feet also. Or you can choose to be more attentive in the connection with your partner, and make sure that your foot is not going to be stepped on again. It is the opportunity to improve your skills, and be attentive to each steps in the dance. This way, you will direct each steps with purpose, intention and care.
You can choose to liberate yourself from your “mask” and strengthen yourself, so when your trigger point (or pain body) is affected again, you are ready to stay in your power and continue the flow where you feel connected.
Then, you experience life from another point of reference, and invite the other to continue the dance, with a different interaction.
Life is filled with wonders!
This Dance has the purpose to happen in harmony with your surrounding; with connection, however without attachment.
Keep Dancing,
Christelle